You can have a strong desire and really want to achieve your goal but as I’m sure you’ve experienced, life has its way of knocking us off course. Things come up, distractions occur, the next thing you know, you look at your goals and wonder what the heck happened.
Success takes a lot of focus. I’m sure you’ve had the experience of setting a goal and being really excited about achieving it only to have a few weeks or months to go by and realize the goal has dropped down on your list of priorities.
There is a huge difference in having an interest in achieving a goal and having a burning desire to achieve a goal. How intense does the desire have to be? It has to be enough to pull you through any obstacles or challenges that can possibly come up.
I’m sure you’ve heard the analogy of how you must want your goal as badly as you want to breathe. If someone held your head under water, you’ll do whatever it takes to be able to breathe. Procrastination is no longer an issue. Motivation is no longer a problem. The desire has become so intense that you will give it all you’ve got to take that breath of air.
Getting what you want in life comes down to getting yourself to do what needs to be done when it needs to be done. The problem many of us run into is losing our motivation to do what we have to do. Coming up with a bunch of ways to motivate yourself is great but I think it’s also useful to identify some of the things that destroys your motivation in the first place. That way, you can figure out what usually causes you to lose your motivation and do something to prevent it.
If taking action is the key to success, then figuring out what stops you from taking action is equally important. The following is a list of 21 common things that can kill your motivation.
Negative thinking is a way of life for most of us. It takes a negative toll on our self-worth, and it can influence our thoughts, decisions, and opinions on everyone and everything in life. In essence, negative thinking can cause us to view everything from a negative point of view.
A negative outlook on everyone and everything will not help you enjoy life to its fullest; in fact, it will cause you to do the opposite of that! If you want to learn how to control negative thinking, then first you have to figure out where it comes from. Then you can start taking action towards controlling it.
Habit 1 : Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
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Limiting Beliefs can stop you from doing everything you want to do. The good news is you are in control of your beliefs and can change them once you better understand the process. At this point you should have a basic understanding of how beliefs are working in your life. If not I’ll sum it up for you. You and your mind are one and the same. Your mind sets beliefs that you have, and you are in full control of those beliefs. Those beliefs control your subconscious and are the reason it thinks and reacts to any situation. The subconscious mind controls your thoughts, emotions, and actions. Your thoughts, emotions, and actions control your life. So by controlling your beliefs you will be in control of your life.
Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs right now and find out how you can unlock your inner potential and change your life fast. Anyone who uncovers the secret to changing their limiting beliefs will be able to do absolutely anything.
Benefits of Challenging Your Limiting Beliefs
So few people actually stand up for what they believe in anymore. In modern society people will do anything to just get a little bit ahead even if it meas selling out what they believe in the most. They do this for all sorts of reasons such as fear of failure, worrying about angering other people, they don’t like confrontations, low self esteem, or and many others. Learning how to really stand up and say “this is what I believe in and I’m going to stand by it to the end” is actually quite easy to do once you understand the basics.
Who Are You?
" A smart man makes a mistake, learns from it, and never makes that mistake again. But a wise man finds a smart man and learns from him how to avoid the mistake altogether ". -Roy H. Williams
Everyone wants to become stronger, smarter, and faster. Each of us have the ability to improve in these areas. There is a range which you usually stay within. These ranges can be expanded and improved as far as you are willing to take them. With only spending a little time each day you will feel the rewards from making these improvements.
I’m going to give you a little insight and some strategies in each different area. Spend at least a few minutes each day working on different ways to think smarter, move faster, and grow stronger. This will enable you to move forward from this day forward. I think this is a great basic topic to help improve yourself and your personal growth.
Specific: A specific goal has a much greater chance of being accomplished than a general goal. To set a specific goal you must answer the six “W” questions:
*Who: Who is involved?
*What: What do I want to accomplish?
*Where: Identify a location.
*When: Establish a time frame.
*Which: Identify requirements and constraints.
*Why: Specific reasons, purpose or benefits of accomplishing the goal.
EXAMPLE: A general goal would be, “Get in shape.” But a specific goal would say, “Join a health club and workout 3 days a week.”
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